Etiquette

When first contacting me, please keep the following in mind: 

NEW CLIENTS

Tantra is an open hearted practice. To ensure our time together is safe, transformative, and loving— all new clients must book a discovery call or introductory tantra video call. No Exceptions. 

I am committed to bringing my full expression and open heart to receive you in our session. I prepare my body, mind, and spirit before each session and am unavailable for same day bookings.

COMPENSATION

I am compensated for my time and mentorship. Deposits are required for all bookings. Compensation (aside from electronic deposit) is cash only. Please bring your payment in an open envelope and make it available to me within the first few minutes of your arrival. This allows us to focus on our connection together immediately. 

BOUNDARIES

Please respect my boundaries. There are few, and the ones I do have I will make clear at the beginning and throughout our time together. I anticipate that you will be a respectful and kind human in all of our interactions. If I feel my boundaries or safety are jeopardized, I will end our session or interaction at my discretion.

I offer sacred tantric guidance and erotic bodywork. No other services are provided or implied. I do not provide full union, so please be respectful and do not ask.

Preparation

HYGIENE

We begin our sacred and sensual adventure by sacralizing the body. Please arrive freshly and thoroughly showered with clean hands and minty breath. When you arrive, I will invite you to wash your hands with soap and water, no exceptions! Please do not use any colognes or fragrances. Please be sure to trim nails, have freshly brushed teeth and be overall clean and fresh for our mutual comfort. I will do the same, unless requested otherwise!

SUBSTANCE USAGE

I ask that you arrive completely sober. Please avoid partaking in any alcohol or recreational drugs the day prior to and following our engagement. Substances can disrupt our mutual connection and hinder the flow of eros and life force energy. I encourage you to  arrive with a sober mind and body to welcome the fullness of your experience. If you smoke cigarettes, please do not do so before our session. Any strong cigarette smell will likely bring an early end to our time together. 

ARRIVAL

I will respect your time and ask that you respect mine. Please be punctual for your session and expect to be welcomed inside when your session is scheduled to begin, not any sooner. I will be mindful of the time for you and prompt a close to our session, but please notice when it is time to leave and make sure to exit in a timely manner.

I will ask you to freshen up when you arrive. Please make sure you have presented the envelope clearly before entering the restroom.

SPECIAL REQUESTS

I’d love to hear about your interests and desires before booking a session. I am very open-minded, non-judgmental and genuinely want to hear your true desires. Share with me any fantasies or kinks you’ve been wanting to bring to life. Please be respectful of my boundaries should I gracefully decline.

I am also happy to consider any outfit suggestions or lingerie requests. If I don’t already have the clothing you had in mind, it is your responsibility to provide the outfit at our meeting or provide the funds ahead of time for me to acquire it before our session. 

RELAX AND CELEBRATE

I encourage you to let go of any attachments to an agenda or goal. Smile, nourish and celebrate yourself! Know that I am celebrating you for investing your precious resources of  time, attention, energy, intention, focus, and finances into something that truly matters to the both of us. This is sacred, holy work and it is nothing short of revolutionary! Please celebrate yourself for making the conscious choice to dive deep into your body, mind, soul, shadows and sexuality. Hydrate, nourish, journal, rest, and be curious. Take loving care of yourself and get excited to create an unforgettable journey together.

Client Love

  • “Before working with Kaia I was facing challenges of ED, self-worth, self confidence, self doubt. I have had therapy and sex therapy about my issues, and they didn't work so I decided to experiment and try a more holistic approach. Working with Kaia my life has changed so much, it is hard to describe, but definitely profound.”

    A.S. Musician

  • “I’ve cultivated a new sense of self love, acceptance and gratitude. The world is more vibrant, I am happier, and have more satisfaction in my entire existence. It was truly groundbreaking to discover my kinks and what turns me on, and to fully lean into them and accept them without shame, guilt, or fear. I am no longer living a life of repression.”

    J.B. Engineer

  • “There was nothing but love and support even when emotionally I felt closed off, shy or embarrassed. It was beautiful and revelatory to be introduced to the concepts and philosophies of tantra.”

    R.L. Physician

  • “Mind blowing in the highest sense! Working with Kaia put me in touch with kindness and love. A sense of humanity was reawaked inside of me.”

    K.F. Attorney

  • “It was so clear to me from the moment we got on the phone that Kaia’s words were sincere, that she invested in the practice of grounding her energy and listening to her intuition - I knew that she walked the walk. She didn't promise miracles. She didn't give me a framework or system - She just saw me in my vulnerability and offered to help.”

    Drew, Performing Artist

  • “I feel 1,000x lighter. Conquering some of these sexual demons was eye-opening not only to the possibilities in my sex life but in my life as a whole. I feel more secure and confident in my sense of self, I feel more joy, and I feel more playful in all of my relationships, romantic and otherwise. I feel like I've come home.”

    T.S. Manager

  • “I feel more excited to explore! To connect with more people. To live a life open to the possibility that I can't even imagine how beautiful and wonderful it can all be.”

    J.W. CEO

  • “Kaia was immediately affectionate, which disarmed a lot of my worries. Her gaze is also so powerful. Even through our last session, sometimes I felt slightly intimidated by it!”

    A.G. Gamer

  • “I think that Kaia’s work could save so many marriages. The conversation about a dying sex life between two partners is RIFE with so many pre-conceived notions and prickly bits. I think that creating a space for a man to just express his frustrations and desires without judgment, to find his sexual compass, would be so valuable for them.”

    H.J. Engineer

  • “I think that so much of what we touched on are areas that I've worked on for years with a coach in other areas of my life, but practicing them in a naked, raw, sexual context just added an electricity to them that is so hard to replicate. For those that really want to get in touch with their authentic selves, I think figuring out what that looks like in a sexual context is so important.”

    A.H. Consultant

  • “Before working with Kaia, I knew that a gap existed between my current relationship to sex and the one that I wanted. But that gap felt somehow infinite and impossible to measure at the same time. I didn't know where to start. I didn't have a safe place to go to, and there was a feeling of hopelessness about my sex life.”

    E.L. Dentist

  • “The first thing I noticed about Kaia was her energy. She has a warmth and an expansive, loving way of being that was obvious, even over the phone. She didn't try to offer me solutions, or promise to fix me. She just listened. She was a caring human capable of holding a space that felt safe to talk about all of the terrifying things that I didn't feel like I could bring anywhere.”

    Mark, Artist

  • “After our sessions, I feel lighter. I feel more connected to who I REALLY am, in and out of the bedroom. And, most importantly, perhaps, I don't feel any lingering dread or anxiety about entering a new sexual relationship. I know how I want to show up, and that's more than I could have ever asked for.”

    T.D. Project Manager

  • “I feel much more at ease in my life now. I'm much more able to slow down, go with the flow, and let things arise and develop in their own timing. I have a completely different perspective on sexuality; before, I saw sex as a means to an end, now, I recognize a whole spectrum of sexual activity that can be empowering, liberating, energizing, magic, and fun!”

    Jon, IT Pro

  • “I have more self-compassion now, through recognizing my own relationship with myself, I like who I am a lot better today, especially in the context of interactions with others.”

    A.C. Accountant

  • “Working with Kaia has been really wonderful overall and I have been especially impressed by her preparation, knowledge, and authenticity. I also appreciated Kaia’s boundaries and how she expressed them with kindness and clarity. She models so many healthy behaviors!”

    B.T. Nutritionist

  • “The biggest highlight for me has been exposing my full self to someone; Kaia immediately made me feel safe to be myself sexually even if it was embarrasing or awkward.”

    J.M. Teacher

  • “I strongly recommend Kaia Luna's 1:1 mentorship. Kaia has changed my life. I never thought about sexuality in a spiritual way before working with Kaia; she showed me that we can tap into our sex as a source of transformative energy. Kaia embodies and exudes powerful energy and enthusiasm for life that is infectious, but she is also unusually mature and knowledgeable spiritually.”

    Andy, Musician

  • “Because Kaia made me feel so comfortable, I was able to be totally open and exposed in a safe environment. I have more confidence in general now, and am enjoying sex much more. I hope your path leads you to Kaia too, she is a one-of-a-kind female embodiment of enlightened energy, she is truly a dakini.”

    C.T. Coach